My mother died in March 2019 and of course it was sad and grief can be tough sometimes, but I saw a lot of funny in that too. Since death comes to us all and grief is something most of us will experience, I thought there must be plenty of people who would like that funny to be shared. She was a complicated person and this isn't just about death. It's about motherhood, sacrifice, anxiety, generational legacy of trauma, regret and, of course, loss, grief and the chaos that surrounds it.